Kids have the most amazing insight if you stop and listen to them. Our daughter has an adult relative who lives far away who said to her “I wish I could see you more often”. Do you know what she said later? I don’t think he means it, or he would see me more often. Good observation.
Let’s look at this more closely. When the relative above says “I wish”, this person is indicating that 1) they have not made a decision to make it happen and 2) the ability to make visits more often is not within his/her power. To that, I say poppycock!